The Process

Each of us is on a journey through life. The Bible reminds us that our time on earth is limited and that God is at work in us like a potter shaping clay. He prepares us, centers us on the wheel, shapes us, trims away what does not belong, and fires the pot. His goal is not only to create something beautiful but also to put that vessel to use in His Kingdom and in the lives of others.

 

I often compare the counseling process to that same kind of journey. My role is to come alongside you as a tool in the hands of the Master Potter. We will begin by preparing for the process and centering on the areas of greatest concern. Through questions and guidance, I will help you discover what may need reshaping in your life, marriage, or family. Sometimes, there may also be things that need to be trimmed away. That too is part of the process. The good news is that God’s work is purposeful, and as He shapes your life, you will find renewed beauty, purpose, and direction.

 

Along the way, you will learn on several levels. We will discuss the circumstances that seem to be the source of your struggles. In marriage and family counseling, I will coach you to learn from one another as those situations are shared. You will also learn from my interaction with each person involved. Together, we will focus on effective communication, understanding emotions, and recognizing patterns that either bring life or harm to your relationships. Ultimately, the goal is to move toward greater health as you trust the Master Potter to do His work in your life.

 

“I have known Mark Oelze for 17 years. He served on my staff at the Wichita Vineyard for 14 of those years. When I met Mark, he was leading a successful Christian counseling center. Mark’s counseling gifts paved the way for his entrance into pastoral ministry, and today I consider him one of the most experienced and wise Christian Marriage Counselors in our city. Evidence of this can be seen in the large number of people who count Mark as one of the key ingredients to their personal healing and relationship health. He is compassionate, sensitive, caring, humorous, and he goes the extra mile to help others.”
Tom Rozof, Senior Pastor Vineyard Church

 

If you are interested in learning more or setting up an appointment, please apply for counseling HERE. My greatest desire is not only to help you move through the difficulties you are facing but also to see you come away with a God-inspired vision for your life!