Welcome

My name is Mark Oelze. I have been counseling couples for 40 years and have been married 44 years to the woman I married right out of college! She was my best friend then and still is. That doesn’t mean we haven’t had difficulty or conflict. We have. But we have grown through it all and want to share all we have learned with YOU!

Though not limited to such, my expertise is in helping couples resolve conflict, communicate, and connect using PLEDGEtalk:  a six-step guide for the conversation!

I want to help you – here is my package:

  • I work with only a few select clients at a time. They are engaged, dating, or married couples who:

    • Who KNOW there is more to experience in their communication and are ready to work at deep personal growth.

    • Who are ready and willing to take an inside look at their own heart and admit what they see isn’t always pretty.

    • Who want to master communication and do whatever it takes to do so. They will commit to the weekly gathering, they will read, study, and practice what they learn.

    • Who know this is easily worth the investment of finances, time, energy, and focus.

    • Who want to experience the greatest possible connection with their spouse here on earth.

    • Who want to pass what they learn on to their children, so they too will experience the best relationships with family, friends, and one day their own spouse.

    • Who will also share what they learn with others who also desire that their marriage and family be all it can be.

  • I see couples 3 or 4 times a month in my office or through a telecare HIPAA-compliant video process.

  • I give you lifetime access to an online learning platform where I have created 22 video lessons of the best of the best teaching on marriage. You will go through this to supplement the counseling process.

  • You will have limited access to me between sessions. This means I will read your emails, note them for our next session, and give any brief thoughts or direction that I can in a limited time frame.

  • And if/when we both decide that it is appropriate and a good fit, I will invite you both to join my wife and me for a weekly group coaching call on Thursday evenings.

  • My cost is $800/month.

  • You can learn more about me HERE.

  • You can read my book, The PLEDGE of a Lifetime.

  • You can download HERE a one-page Infographic now that explains the PLEDGEtalk 6-step process I have created to help YOU communicate and connect, even in conflict!

If you are interested in learning more or setting up an appointment, please call me at: 316-207-5924. I look forward to talking to you!

Mark Oelze, M.A., Marriage and Family Counselor, Author/Creator of PLEDGEtalk